The dresses, camis, nighties etc are sexy, but more in an ‘I want to take your innocence way’. Even the stylists at the fashion shows often put the models’ hair into pig tails or have them carry a giant lollypop or lunch box as a prop to complete the visual concept. And it works. On a simple level the styles are cute and playful, but when you think about why they are sexy, it’s a bit strange when realizing that on some level designers are tapping into the taboo male fantasy of being attracted to a little girl. Knowing this, can make it even more fun to wear. When you slip into your little girl inspired ensemble, you can also assume the part in a flirtatious role-play (all subtle and played into merely on a subconscious level).

Below is a collection of designer babydoll dresses which I am basing my search upon; finding a dress similar to these styles but at a price I can afford.

First stop: Ebay. Try to focus on the dress only rather then the model or atmosphere. As an Ebayer you often have to use your imagination, on how you’d rock the piece. Shopping online can be challenging enough since you can’t try it on or feel the fabric, but shopping for vintage online can be even more difficult.

Group 1: I like the pastel colors, gingham pattern and candy-striper style. But dress #1 looks a little too Dorothy from the Oz…May be to over the top.. Out of this group, my pick is #3. I like the color for the warm season and the lace peeking out of sleeves. My only hesitation would be where the bustline hem would fall on me. I’d prefer the hem to start right under my bra rather then mid-way. This is one of those times I wish I could try it on.

Group 2: I love wearing white in the spring/summer and since the babydoll dress attracts enough attention on its own, I may want to work within a neutral color pallet. Dress #1, I like lace on the pinafore and the wide neckline, but I’m looking for more of an empire waist, rather then a drop waist. Dress #2 and #3: the material looks cheap especially on #3, it doesn’t look soft and flow-y. And this cut is leaning more towards peasant-y instead of babydoll-ish. Must stay on track. Moving on..

Group 3: Dress #1 is awesome without the sleeves, so I have to factor in the alterations. Dress #2 I like the subtle print and cut, but might be too long..more of a prairie look. #3: Like the cut, ivory background and muted terra cotta colored floral pattern. Folks we may have a winner!..And since it’s ebay, I could always buy 2